IVY LEAGUE ASSHOLE asked:


Last semester was crazy. I ended up with 3 Fs. I don’t know what happened to me, but I could never take my mind off sex. Every week I asked out a new girl. During midterm weeks when I was SUPPOSED to be studying, I spent nights thinking about how to “snag” certain girls (some of them had boyfriends). I didn’t go to class but instead went on daily lunch dates with girls. I seriously couldn’t concentrate AT ALL on my studies. Some of my textbooks were still in its shrinkwrap at the end of the year (no joke). Almost everyday I wondered what it would be like to have NO testetrone or to literally lop off my nuts (sorry for the graphic language). But I really could not control myself. My mind was too distracted. I don’t know why I couldn’t repress sexual feelings. What should I do to repress them later?

Crono6664 asked:


I am taking anti-depressants and my sex drive got higher, instead of getting lower like typical anti-depressants. I tried going off of the pills, but I didn’t like being in my depressed mood. My girlfriend and I are trying to wait until marriage to have sex, but the date is another year away. I don’t know if I can stay sane until then. I am NOT going to masturbate.

By the way, you might think it’s normal to have sex before marriage and to masturbate, but you just don’t understand. NOT everyone wants to be what everyone calls “normal.” Everyone has their own version of ‘normal’

Also for those religious people out there, the usual “praying about it” doesn’t work. Don’t give me a religious answer, I’ve tried them all.

Thinksalot asked:


Here’s my situation:

If I masturbate just once every couple weeks, my pleasure is high and my orgasm feels great.

But if I masturbate more often, say 3 times a week, my pleasure is low and my orgasms don’t feel as good.

Why is this? It’s as if my libido takes a couple weeks to “recover” to where it should be…

Kat asked:


Ok, so I’m trying out this single thing where I do not want to date anyone and learn how to be comfortable in my own skin. I feel so much better to finally be by myself after jumping from one relationship to the next ever since i started dating. But what do I do with my overactive sex drive, Its been so distracting and i wish i could just turn it off somehow for a while untill i’m ready to start dating again I’m very serious, it has been seriously interfering with my daily activities and is super distracting. My doctor suggested antidepressants but is there something i can do that is less drastic?
P.S. I’m not depressed, I just need to focus on getting my degree right now

brokenmachine asked:


I am currently taking Yohimbine bark to increase my libido and it seems to be working. I was just wondering whether or not, if I took it for a long time and suddenly stopped, if my libido would drop lower than it was before or if Yohimbine had some kind’ve long term effect on a person’s libido? Also, the longer I take it, will my body build up more of a resistance to it? As far as it increasing my libido. Thanks.

Rogue Wyndwalker asked:


Are there any women here who have suffered from a loss of libido from taking birth control? How did you deal with it? Are there any women who found ways to cope with it withOUT going OFF of birth control? Have people found that birth control that uses that different hormone (DSRVP? or something like that…) has a lower incident of causing lack of libido? Also, I experience an inability to become aroused… is that also part of this side effect?

It has been really difficult dealing with this and when I went to the doctor to discuss it, their only suggestion was to try family planning and my husband (and I) aren’t willing to take that much of a chance with getting pregnant. What should I do????
I’ve been on Depo-Provera (the shot you get every 3 months), Orth-Evra (the patch), and now I’m using Nuva Ring. All of which I have experienced this with. I have not tried the pill because I am 99 % positive that I will NOT remember to take it everyday!
We are both very young (only 21) so we are *not* going to get a vasectomy! (Not to mention we don’t have the money for it anyway!)

Mummy to 3 Girls & 1 Boy :0)x asked:


i am 22 and am already a mum to 3 children..but my partner and i have decided its the right time to try for number four.. ( possibly our last ) but i started having depo dec o4, 8 or so weeks after my daughter was born.. i bled consistantly for 8 1/2 months.. i have had numerous side effects.. such as constant headaches.. feeling tired low or next to no libido.. etc etc.. i havent missed any shots but i am due for my next shot in sept but i am not having it as we have decied to try again.. but i was wondering if there is any known way to help it out of my system pretty sharpish!! i have been eating a healthy diet and plenty of water but is there anything else i can do to help reverse the effects.. also is there a chance of any harm coming to a baby after concieving quickly if i should be so lucky?

Fanomina asked:


I know this question has been asked many times. But my no-libido is due to my anti-anxiety meds. I’ve tried a lot that claim to have low sexual effects, but none have worked.

Are there any natural ones that work for females on anti-anxiety meds?

Also someone mentioned a spit test from a pharmacy to show which hormones they were low on? Can any pharmacy do this or certain ones? Cost? How does it exactly work?

Thanks!

freaksmom333 asked:


are there any foods, natural remedies or cures for a low sex drive? I’ve always been like this

queso8 asked:


I think from my birth control pills my libido has been really really low. I feel bad for my husband and i am thinking of taking some sort of herbal pill, Maybe epimedium (horny goat weed) or something of that sort. Anyone got any ideas on other pills that you have tried that might help? Any husbands or men out there that have some good ideas that you have heard of?