nnnnyyyyyiillllll asked:


i m 21 year girl and engaged in a relationship frm past 2 years,i have never had intercourse but we both indulge in oral sex,we both are quite creative in bed and we both try to stimulate each other by many a ways,he Ejac*** always in the end but i just get wet.I dont know how do one get an orgasm?we almost do our foreplay for almost an hour or 15-20 minutes at the least but thn too i dont get satisfied?after doing all thsees things and once he has his orgasms i get tired and feel i have lost all my energy…I am quite conservative and i dont intend to loose my Viriginity before my marriage,,Is there any emotional block that is resisting me from having one or do i suffer from any dysfunction?i love my bf a lot and even i would love to squirt and satisfy myself,i have tried masturbating but then whn i do it i don feel anythng extraordinary coz i get worried that i may loose my hymen though i enjoy having sexual pleasure but still i m confused whether gettin wet means orgasm?please help

equinocio75 asked:


This is a problem that I think I have… Help please:
I’m a 31 y/o male, 5′11, 150 lb, no medical problems, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, don’t eat junk food, active.
I’ve been smoking cigarettes for 10 yrs… an average of 1 pack/day.

I’m sexually active… and I never thought I had ED… I haven’t gone to a Doctor… I get good erections but not as good as I wanted… I thought it could be a low sexual drive from stress, or lack of sleep ( I work overnight) UNTIL a took Viagra. I thought I didn’t need it… I just wanted to experiment with it (for fun), and I suddenly realized the difference. I thought I was a teenager again.

I did my research and now I know how harmful cigarette is for your arteries, and that it in fact it CAUSES erectile dysfunction… Now I’m going crazy because I do not want to be using no pills, and because I think I’m too young to be suffering from ED.

Question: I’m quitting smoking but CAN I REVERSE THE DAMAGE ALREADY DONE TO MY ARTERIES???

Me, Thrice-Baked asked:


Some nutjob wrote this in response to a question regarding homosexuality:

“I am a parent and I don’t want my children to be gay or lesbian I don’t even allow them to be in the presence of gays if I am not around to monitor their behavior. I think that it is unnatural and a form of perverted sex just the same as a child molester, a sexual dysfunction that people are now trying to act like it is normal behavior and it is not. Homosexuals are sexual deviants. There is nothing nornmal about if it was than your sphincter muscle would not be detroyed in the sex act. I worked in the prison system for a long time and there is nothing normal about it. The homosexuals brutalize and brainwash individuals just like a child molester into believeing that this is something that they want to happen. I had a gay neighbor who told me as he was dying of Aids that he wished that he had never chose that lifestyle but an older man had turned him around when he was a youngster.”
(Cont’d)
“I don’t want homosexuals in the teaching profession or working with children period. I don’t want them in the corrections proffessions because they allow young men and women to be raped in prison and look the other way. However, when the young mans wife or girlfriend comes for a visit they are not allow to kiss or touch each if they do their visit is terminated and the individual is not allowed to visit anymore ain’t that a *****. However the homosexual acts are allowed to happen all day everyday. Promoting homosexuality in th prisons and spreading Aids and then they come home and give it to their wives and girlfriends after they leave the prisons. I think it is immoral. There are negatives aspect to every lifestyle homo or hetro sexual. I am still angry at the homosexual crossdresser who stuck his hand up my dress at a bus stop over 20 years ago however he allegedly liked men so why did he stick his hand up my dress? You people are sick minded.”
(Cont’d)
That is all I can say you need to seek professional help. Sex has blown your mind somehow and you don’t know which way is up.”
This woman is dangerous. I vote we institutionalize her. I’m up for other methods although I think she’ll remain stuck in her own stupidity. Any suggestions?
Hey, Nicole M, you troll, you answer that way to every question asked in any forum.
Mudsplitter, please reread the question. I am certainly not the author of this despicable rant.
Again, TIGERROSE, I am NOT the author of the phrase above!

I would NEVER say such things - I was asking what kind of sick, demented mind would think up such terrible things to say. My beautiful mate is a woman too, like myself. I was posting the question because showing others the mindset of homophobic crazies like the woman who actually authored it is important to our society. Everyone should see how demented they are.
Mulato - Where exactly in this question did I try to “censor” her opinion? Actually, I am doing quite the opposite - giving her opinion the coverage that it deserves. You must tell me how your definition of ‘censorship’ involves quoting others, I’m fascinated.

(((Hugs Zero Cool))) Me too, my friend.

Briseis of Troy asked:


I am currently reading this book ” A Return To Modesty”
by Wendy Shalit. I am finding myself very moved by
the information in it.

In this book she talks about how womens liberation
is actually oppressing women much more,and causing
all sorts of havoc to be wrought upon us. With freedom
to sleep around and dress how we want
and emulating men, With feminism the norm
we now have increased rape,increased sexism,
increased violence against women increased sexual
dysfunction, increased anorexia
and bulimia,increased divorce, increased abortion,
increased STDs, increased psychological problems..
the list goes on and on.

In your opinion do you believe that women
giving up their modesty has hurt us? And
inevitbly destroying romance, marraige,
relationships,and mens treatment of women.

Men used to live by a code of conduct
around women, to be worthy of them.
To be gentlemen. Chivalry isnt dead
because men woke up one day and decided
to be A-holes, women are training them!
It is our fault!
By women giving up their modesty
and sleeping around and acting
vulgar we have caused men to
respect us less and to use
us more.

Men dont act like gentlemen anymore
because women dont act like Ladies
anymore. If women want chivalry
they have the power to change it
but it starts with us the women.
But that means no more acting
a **** and definitely means holding
men up to a higher standard.

…And just watch the divorce rate
plummet.

Wally O asked:


It’s hard to focus on the work load I have if I’m horny all the time? Is there any types of foods that can lower my libido?
I’m about 18, freshman in college. I’m not really sure about relationships because my college is rather far from home and most of the girls are from around here…

cheyenne asked:


im switching from nuvaring becuase of low libido and nausea for the first three days of it each month. i also have had recurring bv infections that i think may be from it. I am terrified of nausea and vomiting and im hoping YAZ does nt cause these. any one on it that has good or bad experiences?

Fallbrookdave asked:


Ok here is the scoop. Im 45, went to the doc and had male hormone tests done. To find that I had very low levels. I found that I was dragging and my mind was cloudy at times. Libido was very low also. I used the cream with no success, and had to go to weekly injections of .5cc. Well I have felt better and have a bit more muscle mass, BUT I am losing my hair now! I did not have a hair loss problem before. I have been on injections for about a year now. I am not a happy camper now, what should I do? Stop completely? Not sure the doc is concerned about hair loss.
Oh yeah guess the big question is will my hair grow back when my levels drop down again?

Jamie S asked:


anybody have any experience with their pill making their sex drive lower? if so what brand of birth control pill was it. same for if it had NO effect on your libido.

gg asked:


My ovulation tests have been getting darker and darker. Yesterday and today I had the darkest test lines. I had light bleeding today, and it hasn’t turned into a full-blown period either.

Here are the facts:
1. My periods are normally 25 days long. Tomorrow will be day 25!
2. However, my cycle was 35 days last month (I had been really sick, and was taking cortisone and antibiotics).
3. I have been taking ovulation tests from day 8 of my cycle with extra light lines.
4. We have been TTC every other day since day 8, then every day for the past 4 days.
5. I had very sticky, but very liquidy mucus, increasing from day 20-present, as well as increased “libido”.
6. My lower back hurt bad today. and I had bright red, but very light bleeding, but am not bleeding anymore…just mucus.
7. I had a fever last night (100).

Is there some phenomenon that causes an increasingly darker line on an ovulation test as a woman nears her period?

absolute.euphoria asked:


I know I have depression, there’s no doubt in my mind about it. I’m not my normal self. When I don’t have to get up for work or school, I can easily sleep for more than 12 hours and still be tired. There are days when I’m always eating something, other days I’m not hungry for anything. I’m not interested in doing the same things I always have been. I stay in the house, watching TV or playing on the internet.

The problem is…I don’t know whether a doctor would be as well trained in diagnosing depression as a psychiatrist or counselor. However, I know that a doctor would be well trained in assuring that the antidepressants I’m prescribed are ones that will give me the least amount of side-effects. (My libido is low enough and I read that’s one of the side-effects.)

Also, what do they (doctors/psychiatrists) do to diagnose depression? Do they test hormone levels or what-not? I don’t have insurance and I’d like to know what to expect before charging it. Help would be appreciated!