I have been masturbating for last 2 years atleast daily. For last 1 year, atleast 3 to 5 times a day. I watch lot of pornographic content. For last 1 year, I am unable to maintain an erection. I have to stroke with hand to get erection and keep stroking till I reach climax. If I stop stroking with my hand, I will lose erection in about 10 sec to 1 minute. Usually i ejaculate in 10 to 20 minutes. Is it impotence. If so, is there a way to recover to my normal erections where I don’t have to stroke to get an erection. Also, if Viagra is a solution, can Viagra be taken everyday ? I have not had sex with a female.. and am 29 years old… Please advice..
It doesn’t cause impotence, but it can spoil Love making somewhat.
Dudes are visual creatures, and you don’t want to train your sex neuro pathways to respond and become dependent totally on visual.
When making Love, you are a participant, and not an observer. You don’t get to view that action, you do the action. If you are needing to see the action, that can be a handicap for you.
Start moving away from porn and working toward finding mental stimulations in still pictures, then gradually start to focus more on the feel good of your penis while jacking. Bring in some variety like using a Lube for slippery feel good! That’s more what the real thing feels like.
Start focusing on the feel good and think in your mind about you making Love to a real Living Lady who is excited over you!
If the change is difficult at first, back off from comming off for 3 days if you can go that long! On the other hand, make yourself wait that long, and by then your body will be desperate enough to work with you to try new things and like them.
It’s normal to loose hard on, if you stop stimulation. The stimulation is it’s life source.
What you want to be doing here, is building variety and getting new mental pathways built that you can go down to make real Love. You are hetero sexual, so the more pathways for that type of sex that you can use to enyoy and have real person relationship, the better off you are.
Don’t worry about needing to come off 3 or 5 times a day. Your are maxing your bodys ability to perform for you, and you are anything but impotent. You are hugely potent to kick out a wad 3 to 5 times per day every day.
If you start the Viagra thing when you are in such good shape, you will become dependent on it and think that you need it, when that is so not true!
You are hugely potent, and just have an unrealistic expectation of sex and what it should look like. Most Dudes at 29 might come off through making Love once a day, and some now and then twice.
Most of them look like 3 to 4 times a week. Lots of sex is OK, but you need to take time to mix in all of the other things in life too that you could love, like relating with real people and interaction. That makes sex more healthy as well, and you get to meet Ladies, who could fall in Love with you.
Balance makes all good and healthy.
Wanting the best of it all for you Man
Me! :- )