fridays asked:


What could be the reasons?
I haven’t changed at all.
I take great care of myself and work hard at my job.
And I dont even just want sex- I actually do want to be intimate.

Do women have sexual dysfunction problems like men. Or whats the problem do you think?

hippiemania asked:


The man has severe trust issues,accusing and distrustful to the point of paranoia.Spouse is mildly overweight, but very attractive.
Man used meth at first, has since been sober 2 years.Both are previously divorced with children from those marriages,no children live with them. Man rarely sees his kids and has a horrible realtionship with his ex. Woman sees child regularly and has an amiacable relationship with ex.The trust issues,sexual dysfunction and his sobreity began within months of each other.They fight often, 90% of those fights centering around the husband’s doubts.The woman had a fairly normal single life, but is faithful and genuinely in love.The man’s single life was during his meth addiction and centered around sex.He has mostly been with attractive,thin women. He has severe anger control problems and says horrible things during the fights. There is no physical abuse.
He makes no effort at sex,and says its just an “ego thing” to want it from him.Is he just not attracted?

Bearsha asked:


sexual dysfunction,past/present heartbreaks,family,work…You get it! how do/would you explain this to your “total package” that you are scared! basically of committment?

NURSING FOR LIFE!! asked:


A friend of mines has been in a sexually lacking relationship for about 4 years now. He has strayed b/c of the sexual dysfunction and has since been trying to reconcile the relationship, but the sex is still little no none, and boring as hell, and he still has thoughts of straying w/ someone he dated for a significant amount of time during the main relationship.

This friend wants to know how can he tell his girlfriend that she needs to up her sex game. He likes sex, he wants sex, and needs more to desire than her ”lay there like a piece of wood” mentality.

Help me help him please!! Thanks.
**thought out educated answers desired, thanks**
Excellent answers so far, thanks!
The girlfriend is still bitter about the other woman, and refuses to get past it although there supposed to be moving past it! So she throows things in his face daily, and doesn’t even want to sleep in the same bed, but doesn’t want to cut him loose either. Either other thing out her mouth is: Ya b*tch this, Ibet ya whore did that, blah, blah, blah. It’s kinda hard to move on when your stuck on the past…..right?
Wow! Some of you females that replied sound like the bitter girlfriend, that can’t satisfy her man!!! LOL! Cute answers though!

runnin_velle asked:


I am a married man of 10 years and have three wonderful children. I love my wife very much but she has absolutely no libido what so ever. We have talked and talked about this issue all with no resolve. I am wondering if there is anyway out there for me to lower or totally eliminate my libido so I do not want “it” anymore. I believe this with this no longer an issue in my life and our marriage we will be much happier. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Dr. Schulze asked:


all over the house now that his testosterone levels are up? I was diagnosed low 4 months ago and now after 8 injections my libido is through the roof…I need it all the time.

Can any of you relate?

ps: All middle aged men should have their T levels checked. I feel 30 years old again.

comicxmom asked:


3rd marriage (best guy,does anything i ask, puts up with so much)
i do love him but not in love with him
2 kids at home (9 & 11)
work full time
love to spend money
had great sex for 4 years
I did have an affair