sprocket asked:


My Bf has had erectile dysfunction for six months but avoids talking about it. He does not touch me sexually in any way (although we touch in a friendly way, like hugging), and when pushed, said he would visit a doctor, but has not done so. Do I have to get used to lving without sex? I would be happy if he tried to give me satisfaction in other ways (other than penetration) but he won’t. He seems to think we’re fine as we are. Would I be wrong to think about leaving?

Recruiter asked:


My sister is in a committed relationship with a guy that has sexual dysfunction and can’t meet her needs. He triesShe talks to me all the time about it, and I don’t know what to tell her anymore.

I don’t think it’s right - but she’s desperate at this point.
She just wants to find someone for the physical part only, because the rest of their relationship is good. They’ve been engaged forever but she keeps pushing back the date because of this.

What do you think?

vonhartleben asked:


Half the time he just doesn’t feel like having sex and when he does I am always on top and it can be frustrating to the point where I just don’t try as much anymore. Why should he have all the pleasure? I can’t remember the last time he initiated sex. I want him to be a man and take charge sometimes, and not always have to be the aggressor. He is otherwise very affectionate and loving. He didn’t used to smoke as much so I am wondering if this is the problem?