Alice S asked:


I’m writing a paper on sex. Details are irrelevant, the point is I wish to incorporate as many opinions as possible. If you can find information supporting your opinions that I can cite, fantastic. If you cannot locate anything, or are simply too lazy, that’s fine, also. I understand, believe me.

So please, state whether you agree or disagree and why.

1) Mindlessly thrusting, hoping for so sufficient results, is a waste of time, and energy. It shows that the individual practicing such ‘technique’ (or lack of) is either a virgin, stupid, or selfish.

2) Young adult females may feel guilty if their first sexual experience is not as fantastic as they have been lead to believe it should be. Therefore, they will assume that something is wrong with them. In an attempt to hide their personal dysfunction, they will exaggerate pleasure that is not actually present.

3) Missionary is virtually everyone’s first position.

4) Most high school boys lie about sexual encounters to gain status.

5) Porn is for show. Majority of the things used in pornography, are, essentially, useless. It gives young men idea’s about sex that are not actually true or useful.

6) Sexual relationships rarely start out ‘dirty’. They become ‘dirty’ as both parties grow bored of the ‘romantic’ thing.

7) Rock, don’t thrust.
Women look up sexual techniques and tips more often than men.

9) Please list four area’s of the vagina that are wonderful for stimulation and your, or your partners, preference.

10) Feel free to leave anything here. Something you are fond of, or are not fond of, or anything else that is on your mind and relates to the topic.

Thank you all so much! It’s very helpful. I appreciate it.
Thanks to everyone who answers.

Please continue answering! I’ll be working on this for the next month or so, so if you come across something you think may be helpful feel free to send me an email: donotusethisproductif@yahoo.com

Thanks so much!! <3's to the helpful.

No Name asked:


He’s amazing, I want him, and he’s smart, interesting ,well-adjusted, and mature, and handsome as sin itself, I even think I can see us together; but I’m not sure it isn’t premature (no pun) to contemplate that! I’m too young (we are in our 30s)!

Anybody ever get into a relationship with someone with sexual dysfunction - is that a relationship killer? Even pharmaceuticals aren’t sure fire (again, no pun).

Anyone with such experience, or who knows of resources where this is discussed (other than medical resources) - I’d be much obliged!

Lord Percy Wooster IV asked:


at what age does being a virgin turn from being a brain washed robot to an indicator of sexual dysfunction. Condemning any prospective partner to a life time of second rate sex?

Briseis of Troy asked:


I am currently reading this book ” A Return To Modesty”
by Wendy Shalit. I am finding myself very moved by
the information in it.

In this book she talks about how womens liberation
is actually oppressing women much more,and causing
all sorts of havoc to be wrought upon us. With freedom
to sleep around and dress how we want
and emulating men, With feminism the norm
we now have increased rape,increased sexism,
increased violence against women increased sexual
dysfunction, increased anorexia
and bulimia,increased divorce, increased abortion,
increased STDs, increased psychological problems..
the list goes on and on.

In your opinion do you believe that women
giving up their modesty has hurt us? And
inevitbly destroying romance, marraige,
relationships,and mens treatment of women.

Men used to live by a code of conduct
around women, to be worthy of them.
To be gentlemen. Chivalry isnt dead
because men woke up one day and decided
to be A-holes, women are training them!
It is our fault!
By women giving up their modesty
and sleeping around and acting
vulgar we have caused men to
respect us less and to use
us more.

Men dont act like gentlemen anymore
because women dont act like Ladies
anymore. If women want chivalry
they have the power to change it
but it starts with us the women.
But that means no more acting
a **** and definitely means holding
men up to a higher standard.

…And just watch the divorce rate
plummet.

IVY LEAGUE ASSHOLE asked:


Last semester was crazy. I ended up with 3 Fs. I don’t know what happened to me, but I could never take my mind off sex. Every week I asked out a new girl. During midterm weeks when I was SUPPOSED to be studying, I spent nights thinking about how to “snag” certain girls (some of them had boyfriends). I didn’t go to class but instead went on daily lunch dates with girls. I seriously couldn’t concentrate AT ALL on my studies. Some of my textbooks were still in its shrinkwrap at the end of the year (no joke). Almost everyday I wondered what it would be like to have NO testetrone or to literally lop off my nuts (sorry for the graphic language). But I really could not control myself. My mind was too distracted. I don’t know why I couldn’t repress sexual feelings. What should I do to repress them later?

beautyliz asked:


My bf & I av been seeing eachother for 8 Mnts now,got intimate 4 monts after and we’ve been good since then.he’s a man’s man.and I love him to pcs,I know i want to spend the rest of my life with him.he’s very gentle with me,never holds a grudge,he’s not verbally or emoitionally abusive,he’s very objective,he says he’s sorry when he’s wrong&accepts when his flaws are pointed out,he corrects me in private and he so sweet[trys to sing to me],though he gets insensitive sometimes,it’s not on purpose.tells me he’d never hurt me,luvs a lot of things about me.He gets verbally unxpressive with his emotions and he shuts me out and that hurts he doesn’t no this.he looks at me & i know he cares.but he’s nevr told me ‘HE LOVES ME’ & i wonder why,he has not doubt about the way i feel about him but why won’t he just tell me ?
2> In all of 6mnts we made love 12 times do you think thats ok,is his libido [ok,average,high or low] I’ll be 26&he’ll be 30 both of us this year.Finally do you think we’r ok?
when i say he’s verbally unexpressive emotionally,i mean he rarely talks about matters of the heart,how he really feels deep down.Like he can’t be totally vulnerable with me.I understand to an extend and i give him time to come around and give him space to get himself together,which he does,i try not to be clingy with him.and never act totally ‘available’ afterall he’s the only one i Love,i don’t have another and God forbid that i cheat on him !.
He wants to be intimate everytime he’s with me,yeah we might have times when i can’t,he used to understand but i guess cause of the long intervals btween when we do get intimate and not,he always wants to be intimate when he gets to be with me eventually.I love him & like to be intimate with him but i’d been abused as a young girl [havent told him yet] he’s technically my 1st and i’m almost 26yrs old while he’s almost 30& i thought 12 times in 6 months was almost too much.But i guess i was wrong he’s been patient with me.I hp we’ll be ok.

meC asked:


He blames this on his age and prescribed medication. Is there anything we can do to improve his libido or lower mine? When we are sexually active the sex is great, but the lack of quantity is beginning to become a problem in our relationship. We have tried enhancement drugs, but they just aren’t working. Any ideas?
I forgot to mention he is in his late 30’s and I am in my late 20’s.

Shawn W asked:


I have a very low libido and I want a girlfriend that will understand that I do not want to have sex.